I know you've said to me .. you'll see to my needs and I'll see to your wants. I'm finally understanding. Our D/s relationship is based on enjoyment from both sides. You realized that for me to enjoy my service to you, that my needs must be met. If I am feeling crappy, low down, insecure, or whatever then my service is going to be faked or half-assed. At some level, i may even develop resentments.
But, with all your caring and attention my desire to please and serve you grows more each day. I respect you and love you and need to meet your wants and desires.
I don't expect you to solve my problems but I do appreciate that you allow me to solve them before pursuing my service.
Thank you my love
xoxo